Empowering Your Teen to Build Their Own Path to Success
- Stephanie Haynes
- Feb 6
- 2 min read
In a world where success is often measured by degrees and GPAs, it’s easy to overlook the stories of those who charted their own path. Take Jamie, for instance. After high school, they weren’t sure what to do next. Instead of enrolling in a four-year college, Jamie pursued a certification in digital marketing while working part-time. Within two years, they were thriving in a career they loved—without the burden of student loan debt.
If your teen is unsure about traditional college, it’s time to explore other options that focus on skills, experience, and passion and empower your teen to build their own path to success. Here’s how you can guide them.
Empower Strategy 1: Identify Strengths and Skills
Every teen has unique strengths—but they might not show up on a report card. Help your teen discover their natural talents by observing what they’re passionate about and what comes easily to them. Ask questions like:
What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
What activities make you lose track of time?
Have you received compliments on certain skills or abilities?
These insights can help you and your teen identify career paths that align with their strengths.
Empower Strategy 2: Develop Transferable Skills for the Real World
Many employers value skills over degrees. Here are some transferable skills that matter across industries:
Communication: Expressing ideas clearly and working well with others.
Problem-Solving: Tackling challenges creatively and efficiently.
Adaptability: Adjusting to new environments and tasks with ease.
Highlight these skills as you explore potential pathways with your teen.
Empower Strategy 3: Leverage Non-School Skills Opportunities
School isn’t the only place for learning. Encourage your teen to develop skills through:
Extracurricular Activities: Clubs, sports, and arts programs can foster teamwork and leadership.
Part-Time Work: Jobs in retail, food service, or tech support teach responsibility and problem-solving.
Volunteering: Nonprofit work builds empathy and project management skills.
Self-Study: Online courses and tutorials offer endless opportunities to learn.
Empower Strategy 4: Encouraging Self-Discovery
Encourage your teen to step out of their comfort zone. Start small by:
Suggesting they join a new club or activity.
Encouraging them to apply for internships or apprenticeships.
Supporting them in exploring gap year programs or certifications.
Take the Next Step
Traditional college isn’t the only route to success. Community colleges, apprenticeships, trade schools, and certifications can lead to fulfilling careers without excessive debt.
Want to learn more about helping your teen build a skills-focused career plan? Download my 5-Essential Steps to Guide Your Teen’s Post-High School Journey and check out the upcoming World Changers Online Course!
